So, What now?
safety or risk?
Figuring out what kind of work or business would be valuable and meaningful to you and others may not always be immediately clear. But once you have figured it out, and are thinking about taking action on what may be a bold idea, making a difficult decision that could take you into the unknown and away from the security you know, well, it can be a lot harder.
But it doesn’t have to be.
“Change occurs when one becomes what he is, not when he tries to become what he is not.”
Arnold R. Beisser
Meet me
this is my story.
I am no stranger to big changes, which often start as bold (crazy?) ideas. I’ve changed jobs, professions, and countries several times. I’ve also approached strangers with unexpected questions that turned into incredible collaborations and projects.
Perhaps my most challenging personal change was when I decided to quit the way I was working in international tourism and sell my own travel agency, even though I loved both.
I still remember the moment I made that decision. I was sitting in my office after two of my colleagues had resigned (later I found out had that they had copied my company, my ideas and targeted my clients) and in that deep and silent moment I felt as if everything around me had stopped.
At that moment a voice in my head became very loud, saying, I don’t want this anymore. What I was doing was no longer what I had started out to do, I was tired and disillusioned.
Even if the company was doing well, we had thousands of great clients, we were organising exciting trips, we were working with the biggest tourism services around the world, and we managed to survive the global crises of 2001 and 2008, which broke many companies. In fact, 10 years earlier, I had a dream of owning an agency just like this, but due to a lot of external circumstances and because I was changing, it was no longer enough for me.
So, in that quiet moment, I made the previously unthinkable decision of selling my company. I had no idea at the time how I would do it or what I would do afterwards.
But this decision gave me a huge sense of freedom. Two months later, I had a buyer and a year later I was no longer a travel agency owner. Then I moved to Barcelona, took some time off and there, during this slow period, I figured out what I’d do next.
Fortunately, I already had my own coach to help me become a better leader. So, she also helped me to make those difficult and painful decisions and to make a plan for my future. And now I know it was the right thing to do.
I knew only one thing: I wanted to continue working with people and help them find the courage, the confidence, and a well-thought-out plan to realise their own bold ideas. I have completed several excellent coach trainings and then started a new business that now serves the lifestyle I longed for, so that I can work from anywhere in the world.
As time went on, I started working with more clients who were developing projects and ideas that focused on sustainability and making the world a better place. Having always been a bit of a rebel, I find this really inspiring, alongside the issue of what makes a job or leadership role sustainable.
Hi, I’m Eva Tornallyay, coach, an organisational development team coach, business mentor. I have been a business owner and entrepreneur for more than 20 years, changing professions at the age of 45 and moving abroad for the fourth time at the age of 55. I have lived in Africa, London, Barcelona and Austria. As a coach and business mentor, I support business development (Academy of Women Entrepreneurs, Visa She’s Next) and help people make bold changes. I am cosmopolitan, passionate about travel and scuba diving and only promote what I have already tried.
I know from personal experience how challenging it is to make big changes.
I also know what it’s like to be afraid of something and do it anyway.
I offer support to purpose-driven professionals, managers and entrepreneurs who want to create positive change in their smaller and/or wider communities through their work or business, in a way that is meaningful and inspiring for them.
I believe in change, in moving forward, and in focusing on what can be done differently. I believe that we have many more opportunities than we can see in a crisis. I also believe that doing something is only worth doing if it has a positive impact on the world and our environment and brings us joy at the same time. I believe that good people can think up good things and, with the right support, can make them happen.
my mission
what I stand for.
embracing change and moving forward
I believe in change, moving forward, and focusing on what can be done differently.
looking for possibilities, not excuses
I believe that we have many more possibilities than we see in a crisis or a difficult situation.
positive impact and feeling good
I also believe that it is only worth doing something in a way that has a positive impact on the world and our environment, and it’s important to enjoy doing it.
I work with good people, good companies and good causes
I believe that good people can think up good things and, with the right support, can make them happen.
certificates and experience
professional background.
Gestalt Coaching Center (ICF accredited trainings) – – Transformational Team Coach – organisational development, team development; Action Learning facilitator; Gestalt coaching advanced training; “Blind spots and Taboos in coaching” training;
Academy of Executive Coaching /London – Gestalt Coaching Skills;
Common Purpose Hungary – Meridian leadership; development training
Business Coach Kft. – business coaching;
Solution Surfers – brief coaching basics;
Beyond Knowledge – training program for coaches, based on ICF-MCC level competencies;
Tim Brownson (UK)- Coach the Life Coach – life coach training;
Watson Coaching School – drama-based group coaching; Lisa Bloom Master coach – Corporate Storytelling;
Art of Hosting Central & Eastern Europe – Art of Hosting facilitator;
Hungarian Psychodrama Institute – psychodrama group leader training (more than 1000 hours);
Budapest Business School – BGE – Economist of Hospitality and Tourism.
Business, career and leadership development coaching, workshops since 2014;
20+ years of experience in international tourism;
20+ years of experience as an entrepreneur, director and business owner;
20+ years of experience in business development, service development, international relations, crisis management, market development, team development and strategic planning;
Business mentor in the AWE (Academy of Women Entrepreneurs) program organized by the U.S. Embassy in Budapest
Business mentor in the VISA – She’s Next program, also for women entrepreneurs;
Successful business relationships in 60 countries around the world;
Co-author in a UK published self-development book.
This is important too
some fun facts about me.
I started my first business thanks to an unexpected opportunity. I said yes to an investment offer made by two great people without a second thought, even though 3 weeks earlier I was jobless, did not know about the opportunity or how to run a business.
Also on a sudden impulse, at a major travel exhibition in Berlin, I asked Princess Cruises, one of the world’s biggest cruise lines, if they would like a representative in Hungary. At the time my company was only THREE weeks old. I must have sounded convincing because they sent me an exclusive contract a few months later. This was a unique reference within professional circles, and, within just a few months after our opening, my company became well known.
When I was 45 and on the verge of complete burnout, I moved to Barcelona for a sabbatical and left my original profession. Then, I started training in a new profession.
A few years later I wanted to move to London, so I applied for just one job, and I got it, without even leaving my flat in Budapest. We organized one of the largest tourism trade fairs in the world from London, which takes place every year in Barcelona.
I started a conversation with an executive coach from the UK and I ended up as co-author in a coaching related book, which was published in the UK and is now sold on Amazon You can check it out HERE.
I spent my teenage years in the North of Nigeria, and the word Kalangu comes from a Hausa word meaning “talking drum.” This word is important to me because the drum itself was a means of communication, just as coaching is. The name was also the name of the club where my friends and I used to go dancing on weekends and had loads of fun.
As an adult I’ve lived in Barcelona, London, then thanks to a twist of fate, a small town in southern Turkey and now Austria. I’ve been diving since 1993 and it’s the hobby that helps me to switch off completely. I’m convinced that the sea is the cure for everything.
happy clients.
Let’s chat
if you have a bold idea.
If you’ve been thinking about doing something valuable and meaningful, but you’re too scared to get started, sign up for a free 30-minute no-obligation consultation. Let’s talk about what’s holding you back and whether I could be the one to support you, and if so, how.
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How it works
Through one-on-one conversations (via Zoom or a similar platform), unique programs, and workshops, I offer support to help you shift from frustration, burnout, loss of motivation, or boredom to finding new inspiration and clarity in figuring out what, where and how your ideal work would be.
Dream big, create a new strategy, and build something that serves you better. In the course of our work together, you will make a plan that fits your rhythm and speed, to safely reach your goal.
If you already know the type of support you need, please choose from one of the programs below. If you are unsure which program would be most effective for you, I will be happy to discuss it with you. Feel free to send me an email or sign up for a complimentary 30-minute consultation.